Dear Ecko,

Don't Give Yourself to Strangers

First of all, sex is a big issue and you should always get to know the person, and make sure that when you do have sex you should be mature enough to understand the reasons and consequences that sometimes come along with it. You should always, always, use protection. Don't ever sell yourself short by giving a part of yourself to a complete stranger, please.

You Two Should Talk

I do on the other hand, think that if this girl was your friend she would be concerned enough to talk to you about it. Once more, don't degrade yourself by doing things you will regret. You should talk to your friend.

She's Not Much of a Friend

But my opinion of her would be that she isn't much of a friend, judging by the way she acted A good friend would feel very upset, but more or less would stick by your side – she shouldn't look at one thing and say you aren't a good friend. After all, a friend should be a friend because of what's inside.

Maybe you are a little over vunerable? Would you feel bad if you didn't do something with him? There are a lot of questions you should ask yourself.

Just think it over and talk to her and him. Maybe you can discuss it without anything getting out of hand.

– Shyann