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Dear Confused & Angry 22 & 27,

The first thing that comes to mind: DAMN!!! Do you two have problems.

Dead Wrong

First of all, " Two wrongs don't make a right". But I know your mother already told you that. If you both thought that getting even by doing what the other did is going to make things work – you're dead wrong!!! Now, look at yourselves, you are more miserable than before.

Don't Dish It Out If You Can't Handle It

For some reason C&A 22 cannot get over her boyfriend cheating on her. I think it's because you feel so guilty that you committed the act. Don't dish it out if you can't handle it!

To Her: Get Over It Or Leave

But I am not here to condemn you. What I suggest is either you get over this problem or just leave the guy. You can't be with someone you are upset with. Whatever you think you feel, he feels too.

To Him: Show Her Some TLC

What do you mean "are you giving her any reason not to trust you"? He slept with a bimbo! They'll never trust again.

As for C&A 27, are you giving her any reason not to trust you? Meaning any suspicious behaviour? If not, you just have to reassure her that this relationship is something you want to work out. Just show her a little extra TLC.

Take Time Apart

Why a time apart? They should just break up.

You two really have some thinking to do. I suggest that if you can't get over your hurt and anger, there is a reason. Mainly to STOP CHEATING!!! Take some time apart. All this hurt and anger is just going to make you miserable as a couple. If you leave each other alone for a while, maybe than you can start to heal. But don't even think about getting back together if even one of you isn't happy.

Hope I've Helped,
Mel

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