Dear Panel,
I am a single 23 year old female. I am looking for a strong,
good man to share my life with and have fun. A good man to
love me unconditionally and to stimulate my mind and body.
Don is the man I am in love with, but he has a girlfriend.
They have been together for two years. Don is my idea of a
perfect man, beauty, brain and body. I want him.
I have been seeing/sleeping with Don for about a year. We
started out as just friends because we were both in relationships
with other people. But, our chemistry was too strong and we
quickly became lovers. We had an agreement that it was just
sex and having fun.
This man is my idea of a perfect man, We have a great time
together and our conversations are so stimulating that I find
myself replaying our conversations back in my mind hours later.
Therefore, I quickly fell in love with Don. I broke up with
my boyfriend because he wasn't Don and I only wanted Don.
When I told Don, I expected him to break up with his girlfriend
and we could be together, but he did not and I don't know
why.
I am honestly the perfect woman to this man. I treat him
like a king. And he always tells me how beautiful and sexy
I am and that he thinks about me everyday and looks forward
to spending time with me. He also complains that his girlfriend
is not the woman for him, so why doesn't he break up with
her and be with me?
What should I do about Don and this situation?
– Jasmina
Female, age 23, Florida, USA
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