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Jasmina,
Thanks for explaining your "love life" crisis. Truthfully,
I was quite shocked and compelled about the situation. First hand,
I can say that it's quite complex, maybe possibly a "love triangle"
situation. Don torn between two women: his girlfriend and yourself.
Is there a solution to this
problem?
Don's Not Perfect – He Cheated
First of all, there is no such thing as a "perfect" individual.
Maybe in a fantasy, but never a reality. Everyone has their own
flaws about themselves. I don't think Don is really "perfect"
because he cheated on his girlfriend. If he is so intelligent in
your eyes, why did he cheat with his girlfriend? He's in a committed
relationship; and he should've known better than that. Sure, maybe
the both of you have "chemistry" together; but that doesn't
justify his actions and your actions as well.
He Might Cheat on You
Plus, I don't think you want to be with someone who cheated on
their significant other. How do you know that wouldn't happen to
you?
Maybe He's Thinking About His Feelings
As for his feelings for you, it's pretty hard to say. You asked
him to break up with his girlfriend and be with you. Maybe he's
thinking about his feelings about both of you.
Take It Slowly
I think this is going to need some time and think it out. I don't
see this coming to a resolution anytime soon. It's probably best
to take it slow anyway. I hope the both of you make the right decision.
Good luck.
– Kamana'ono'eau
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