Dear Panel,

I'm a sophomore in college and I have a question that I think is pertinent to all people in college.

Personally my previous relationships tend not to last too long, a couple months tops. I think I've been made more cognizant of this by the fact that recently some of my friends have been getting engaged (that kind of thing).

So I've been wondering -- what is the best strategy for relationships in college? Should I just be looking to meet lots of people -- just for fun? Or am I going to get myself into trouble with such a casual approach to relationships?

– Curious

Female, age 19, Arizona, USA