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Dear Love Is Danger,
Oh, the age old question: should a female wait for a guy?
Sounds just like a predicament I am in myself. My ex boyfriend
that I am still crazy over, has told me that he's interested. But
now is not a good time and I should wait. But for how long?
But enough about me. Let's concentrate on you.
Don't Go on Hearsay
For starters, let me just say I am against hearsay, so when Sexy's
friend says that he likes you, I would take it with a grain of salt
until you and Sexy are going out.
Don't Concern Yourself Over His "Wanking"
Also about him "wanking" over you? Don't even concern
yourself over that...
Don't Be His Backup Chick
As for waiting, I would say don't bother waiting around for him
to decide "OK, now's a good time to go out with Love."
By doing that you're only being his backup chick – he'll call
you when no one else is around.
Date Others
He's actively dating right now, which is how he ended up with the
psycho ex in the first place. I say you do the same. You're much
too young to sit around waiting for him to decide your future. Go
out and make your own destiny – don't let the guy run your
life! And when he sees you dating other guys, he'll realize what
he's missing out on. And if he doesn't come running then, then he
just isn't worth it.
People May Think You're Pathetic
Should you wait? No. What will people think? Well, if you wait,
then people might think you are pathetic (ouch – painful but
I know that's what my friends and I would think). If you don't wait?
Well, people might think that you don't really like him and that
you are going on with your life. Make it clear that you do want
to be with him but you can't wait forever.
Talk to HIM about it – not to the world, or even to his friends.
If you cannot be straight with him, then he's not worth going after.
And you know what? WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK?!?!?! As long
as you are happy and you're not hurting anyone then go on with your
bad self!
At least that's what I would do! Good luck in whatever you decide!!
– Dakota
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