Dear Amanda,

You're Scared and Lonley

I agree. She needs to talk to an adult she can trust.

You might think you feel thirty five, but you sound like a scared and lonely little girl.

Sonds Like Sexual Molestation

If not molested, she is certainly being used.

You are a very troubled person. My guess is that you have been sexually molested by older men for quite a while if you were already sexually active at 13. You might think this is okay.

It's not.

The two men you mention in your letter are sexually abusing you. They could be arrested and charged with statutory rape.

Get Counseling

My recommendation is to break it off with both of them and get counseling immediately.

Please know that you are not alone. You should sit down with a counselor at Planned Parenthood, or at school, or a teen crisis center, and talk about your sexual issues.

You do have issues, Amanda. Please get help.

Love,