Dear Amanda,

You were sleeping with men since you were at least 13 huh? This sounds like it should be a Ricky Lake show.

Looking for Love in the Wrong Places

Both of these guys sound like losers to me. One has a drug problem and a bad attitude the other is too old and just got out of jail. Looks like you are looking in the wrong places. You have time to straighten your life out.

I Won't Be Unrealistic and Say "Stop Sex"

But at least she should stop having sex with guys who are using her.

I won't be unrealistic and say that you should stop having sex. Or, more unrealistic, to say that you should date a goody-good. Go somewhere in the middle. Meet a somewhat crazy guy that goes to high school but has his shit together. Start having some respect for yourself. These guys are obviously just using you.

Where the hell are your parents or family?

This SHOULD scare you. It sounds like she's being sexually molested to me.

Listen, you better stop before you get pregnant, or worse, AIDS. I hope at least you use protection. I am no goody-good at all – I would even say I was always on the wild side – but you scare me.

You're a Smart Girl

I bet you have a lot of great things about you. I am sure you are a smart girl and have plenty of talents. Your life shouldn't revolve around these friken losers and sex. There is so much more than this.

Hang with Your Girlfriends

Hang out with your girlfriends, go shopping, get a part time job, play sports. You can still date boys and have fun, but calm down, sister.

Who Cares About Either of Them?

The answer to your question is: who cares if either of these jack-asses talk to you?

I don't care why you have fallen into this way of life whether it was because of family problems or just a personal choice, but you are better than all of this. Don't sell yourself short. You are a cute 15 year old girl, not an object for these perverts.

So forget them both and good luck and write back in a few months telling me something good about yourself.

Good luck sister!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

– Jimmy