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Dear Pretty Screwed Up...
This is always a tough topic to deal with; wait or don't wait.
Trust me, I've been there too, so I do know how you feel.
She May Want You Only as a Friend
There are a couple of things you may want to take into consideration.
First, and this one may be a little rough, she might want you as
her friend more than her boyfriend. Sometimes what may seem like
an invitation just might not be.
In other words, when she said she liked you, maybe she meant as
friends and didn't know how to tell you otherwise.
She May Not Know How To Deal with Her Feelings
Second, she might actually feel strongly for you but not know how
to deal with it. So instead of talking to you about it, she's just
avoiding your emails. This girl may actually like you, but not know
how to say it or confront it.
She May Want To Avoid Hurting You
Third, does she know about your tough break ups? She may not want
to hurt you by one day breaking up. Sometimes people do things that
may seem hurtful or disrespectful when in reality, they are only
trying not to. What's the best way to not have to hurt someone?
Avoid relationships?
Pretty Screwed Up, take these into consideration. Maybe they are
way off, or maybe they're close enough to shed some light on your
situation.
She May Have To Experiment with Others
Still, the other guy thing – how much in common do they have?
Does she talk about him all the time? A lot of the time, before
two people finally get together, they have to experiment with other
people before they realize just how perfect a match they already
have and not known it.
Tell Her How You Feel
From what you say, it sounds as if you may be a match – tell
her exactly how you feel about her. That's the hardest thing to
do, but it's also the only thing to do.
– Ren
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