Survivor Answers:

Doc,

I think that lust is more you problem than love.

You Only THINK You're Sexually Compatible

"Golly gee, my wife won't do 'oral' or some such other thing in bed, but a person you have never even met on the open end of a electronic cable will, so we are compatible sexually."

What bloody hogwash.

Next rationalization, please, I can hardly wait:

You Only THINK You're Settling for Second Best

Right from the get-go, you did what seemed "natural", including having sex (because you both wanted a family) and now it's denying "my true feelings and a chance of happiness" with some harpy you've never met (oh, that's right, electronic feelings are real even through over 4000 km of distance). Again, you did what came natural (for a family), but now you think that it is "settling for sticking with 'second best' because of the baby." That's all the bloody rationalization I can take.

You Should Be Publicly Castrated

Lighten up! He's just scared of becoming a dad.

Normally, I would suggest to a gent like you who wants to abandon a child for another lover (you have, by the way, not said anything about supporting the child or your wife) that you be castrated in public and be held up to public ridicule for you "almost" actions, but instead here is what I will suggest:

Get Marriage Counseling

You may or may not have made a mistake this far into your life as far as a woman and a unborn child go. Forget the electronic wonder for now and go and seek professional marriage counseling and see if you can make this marriage work. Do this before you compound a almost certain tragedy and maybe make your life a whole lot worse.

Divorce If It Doesn't Work

If all else fails, then divorce and spend the better part of your life paying child support and be rid of the "second best" for someone you may or may not be sexually compatible with.

Boy, that sounds like a great choice to me.

I'll Take You Around the World

By the way, I am 38DD-24-35, Blond and Blue, 50kg and 168cm, age 25, and I will take you "around the world" in bed and I promise to laugh at anything you say and be whatever you want me to be all the time. All you have to do is leave her and come to the colonies and get it. I'll be waiting (bloody right).

– Mr. Survivor

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