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Can I date my best friend's Ex if they still have sex?

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Dear Sweet Kisses,

Dating a Friend's Ex

People have asked if it is OK to date a friend's Ex. There is no consensus on that issue.

Some people feel that if the old relationship is over, the friend should have no say in the matter.

Others have argued that even though the friend technically has no say, it will hurt them, and thus you should take their feeling into consideration.

But your situation is different.

Are They Truly Ex-Lovers?

Are they truly Ex's if they are still sleeping together? There is obviously something still there. It is a relationship, even if it is just sexual, and as others have said there could be much more there.

So, while the question of whether it is OK to date a friend's ex is open, the question of whether to date someone your friend is CURRENTLY dating is not.

Don't do it.

Mr. Sensitive

 

Mel

What do you mean "no consensus"?

I'll give you consensus.

 

 

Jeannie Changing your perception from "my boyfriend (or ex)" to HER boyfriend is not an easy perception to change.

 

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