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Dear Beans,
If you have to do things you don't want to so he will be happy,
shouldn't he do things he doesn't want to so you will be happy?
It is good that you are doing what you can to make him happy. But
in order to have a good relationship, BOTH partners need to be happy.
It Won't Work without Compromise
If he is willing to compromise with you and do things YOU want
once in a while, then let him. You can go with him one night then
he can go where you want to go the next night. A relationship won't
work without compromise.
If you aren't happy in the realtionship, then it's not worth it.
Suggest this idea to him and I can gaurentee things will be a lot
easier for you.
Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to. And if you have
to make him happy, shouldn't he make you happy? Don't feel guilty!
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