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Beans Beans Beans....
Be yourself!!!!
OK....your question was OK until you said:
i feel that i can't be myself around him or his friends
Why would you want to be around someone who you can't be yourself
with? Are you afraid he won't like the "real" you? How
could you constantly go on pretending your are someone you're not?
The first thing you need to do is talk to him about your dislike
of going to the clubs. I know you don't mind going once in awhile,
but if you REALLY hate it why should you go all the time? You BOTH
should compromise and do things you BOTH want to do, not just what
he wants to do. I mean, you ARE 1/2 of the relationship.
I am sure if he is as sweet as you say everything will work out
– just PLEASE I beg you – BE YOURSELF. There is nothing
worse than trying to be someone you're not just to make someone
like you – he'll like you for you!!!! (Well he should anyway!)
Good luck sweet beans....
Hugs,
– Jassy
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