Don't try so hard to please him.

I so agree with you, Aaron. It does seem like she's "trying very, very hard to please him."

She should absolutely take him up on his offer to do something that she wants to do, and drop the guilt. Beans should not feel guilty about doing something that she enjoys doing.

Don't try so hard to please him.
Don't try so hard to please him.
Don't try so hard to please him.

Did I make my point?

Compromise is very important in a relationship and compromise is made on both sides. He's willing to go somewhere besides his beloved club, for Pete's sake, take him up on it! HE is trying to please HER (wow, what a concept).

And Aaron, you're right about the pouting and sulking. She should drop him like a lead balloon, and go do something that she wants.

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