Dear Beans,

Communication is the key here. You must let him know how you feel.

If he says "YES" when she asks to do something else, above all say "THANK YOU", and NOT "well, that's OK, why don't we go to the club. That's what I really want to do tonight." Martyr.

Ask him one night, "Hey, do you just want to watch a movie tonight?" If he says "yes", then you've got him!

If he says "no", then he wasn't meant for you!

He Should Compromise, Too

He must be willing to compromise as well. You should never feel "bad" if you believe he wants to be at the club than spend time with you. If he really liked you then he would make time for just you.

I know when I've been in relationships before, I make sure to compromise in the realtionship. That is one of the main objectives in the relationship.The fact of the matter is that if he's not willing to put down the glowsticks and partying for you, dump him as soon as you can! You deserve a lot better!

Compromise is the main key here. If there is no compromise, there's nothing.

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