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Dear Beans,
This one is easy:
You're Not Compromising Yourself
As long as you like being with him and it's enough to make up for
spending time at clubs you're not compromising yourself (you're
just compromising).
Just make sure that's he's prepared to do the same.
If it gets to be too much (e.g. one of you tries to make the other
one feel bad for how you spend your time) then you've got problems.
Being Happy Together Is Enough
As long as his company makes you happy and your company makes
him happy, where you are shouldn't really matter, but if you have
to be at home to be happy with him or he has to be at a club to
be happy with you then you and him need a long talk.
Rick
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