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How far do I compromise before I lose myself?

Rick Answers:

Dear Beans,

This one is easy:

You're Not Compromising Yourself

Lani
This situation seems a little more problematic than just one that needs more compromise.

As long as you like being with him and it's enough to make up for spending time at clubs – you're not compromising yourself (you're just compromising).

Just make sure that's he's prepared to do the same.

If it gets to be too much (e.g. one of you tries to make the other one feel bad for how you spend your time) then you've got problems.

Being Happy Together Is Enough

As long as his company makes you happy and your company makes him happy, where you are shouldn't really matter, but if you have to be at home to be happy with him or he has to be at a club to be happy with you then you and him need a long talk.

Rick

 

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