How in your right mind could you possibly write the sentence:

Every year millions of young girls are raped and unfortunately people like your boyfriend are the cause of it.

and include it under the heading:

YOU DON'T HAVE TO LEAVE HIM?!?!

Do you realize what you said? Ugh. And then you say "Talk to him first."

If your advice was a two song CD, the titles would be "RUN AWAY!!!" and "Stand By Your Man."

What he's doing is probably perfectly natural and healthy. School girl fantasies are started by school boys who grow up and become men.

The fantasy is about the girl they couldn't get, not generally about little girls they shouldn't get.

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