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You hit the nail right on the head. There is no real evidence of
wrong-thinking and everything is probably just fine.
Except for one thing...
We agree it's probably innocent, but we disagree on the need for
proactive therapy for everything.
If you trip on the sidewalk, do you seek a therapist? How much
therapy does one adult human need? We can't condone that much complete
dependence on a third party to facilitate a two-way conversation.
Learn to walk on your own and you won't have to constantly hold
on to Mommy's hands.
Every couple does not proactively need a therapist! Couples should
learn to communicate effectively on their own, not start out with
a crutch!
Jennae, what is there in your relationship that you can't handle
on your own? Having to involve a counselor ten times before you
get married indicates to us you have significant trust issues.
We agree that therapy is a wonderful resource, and when used properly,
can really help relationships. We also agree that every couple should
go through the pre-marital counseling most churches provide.
Let's not forget that 15 months is really not that long for a relationship
and they are still very young.
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