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Dear Sarah,

Find a Simpler Relationship

Quite frankly, I would follow your friends advice. Get into a simpler relationship. PLEASE.

He's Behaving in a Healthy Manner

What your boyfriend is doing does not mean he is a pedophile. It doesn't mean he isn't either. He is actually behaving in a very healthy manner.

Obviously he has fantasies about schoolgirl types. (Not uncommon) He is choosing to roleplay as opposed to seeking out an underage girl. If he went to therapy, this is more than likely what a therapist would advise him to do: Explore his fantasies in a healthy manner.

Move On If You're Not Comfortable with It

However, you are not comfortable with it. You don't have to deal with it. So move on.

 

Rick

Find a simpiler relationship? What's the fun in a boring relationship?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jody

I agree. He needs to find someone who shares his fantasies.

She should not feel obliged to participate in anything that makes her uncomfortable.

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