Princess,

You're Honest about Yourself

But it's not ALL her fault.

First of all, I appreciate your honesty. It takes a lot of courage to point out when you are wrong. So that is a great beginning. I went through pretty much the same thing, but I am not going to discuss my situation.

What happened was that you did take advantage of him being so nice. And instead of seeing this when you went out with some other putz, you saw it right after you broke up with him, or he broke up with you rather (sorry to be so harsh).

You Can't Change Overnight

She won't ever change. She is who she is.

It happens to the best of us. It stinks that you actually get
desensitized to appreciating how nice someone is. You start taking them for granted. That sucks. You can't just change overnight. This is a large part of your personality. It is what I call "BRAT" syndrome. So with time you can work on that.

You'll Make Him Mad

But for now, you have to give him space because you are going to make him mad. Just tell him that you are there for him if he wants to talk. So leave him alone for now.

Some Girl Will Jump in Your Spot

Hopefully, you made somewhat of a good impact on him. Because otherwise some smart girl is going to jump into your spot and is going to comfort him. She will listen to his relationship problems and say "You poor thing, she was horrible, bla bla bla."

But I have faith in you and that you are a wonderful girl that just got a little ahead of yourself. But again, that you realize your own faults is wonderful.

Give Him Space

Okay, I think I keep repeating myself so give him space and start today on appreciating the small things in life. Start by when you go to bed write down all of the things you were thankful for that day, and when you get back with your man continue to do the same until you don't have to write them down anymore.

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

– Jimmy