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Dear TokyoGirl,
It Just Doesn't Make Sense
I have had the same problems in the past. I used to cheat and
then kick myself in the ass every time. I think it is a disease
myself. I know it is wrong and I am not that horny of a person,
and I did it anyway. It doesn't make any sense.
Quit Cold Turkey
One day you have to just quit. Stop doing. No reason just do it.
Cold turkey. Start slow, meaning 2 weeks faithful, then 2 months,
then 2 years. Make it a goal. And after a while you will have less
desire.
Stay Away from Booze
Another thing: stay away from the booze. That is always a problem.
We tend to do stupid things or CHEAT when we are drinking. You feel
a lot less guilty.
Torture Yourself
Next time you are in the situation put yourself in his shoes and
think of him cheating on you. Torture yourself with those thoughts
and maybe you will be too grossed out to cheat on him.
One Step at a Time
I know soooooo many people that have the same problem. It is human
nature. I don't think anyone knows the statistics on the unfaithful
in relationships. I bet that number would be frightening. Well anyway,
one step at a time,
- set goals,
- NO booze,
- put yourself in his shoes.
Good luck. You can do it. Starting now. One day or one minute,
you are faithful.
Spice Up Your Sex Life
Ohhh and a little tip: Spice up your sexual relationship with your
man. Tell him what you want exactly. Listen (up, down, to the left,
noooo a little lower, okay right there) You get it? Go to a naughty
store and get some toys. This will help.
Take care and you can do it!!!!!!
– Jimmy
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