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Dear TokyoGirl,
I'm Not Sure Why You Cheat
I'm not sure exactly why you cheat on every boyfriend. There could
be so many different emotional reasons. I don't think I would be
able to tell you why either. I think the best thing that I could
do for you is only suggest things to try if you want to continue
your relationship with "Tim".
Seek Professional Help
The first thing that I think that might help you is to seek a professional
to help you understand why you do this and maybe closure to the
painful abuse when you were a child.
Tell Yourself Not To Cheat
You must also think to yourself that if you truly love this man,
you will not cheat anymore. He would be everything to you and you
would do nothing to hurt him. I would keep saying "I WILL NOT
CHEAT ANYMORE" till that's all you hear in your head.
You have the power to control what you do and where you go in your
life. You make all your own decisions, nobody can make them for
you. I think that you need to control your hormones. Just think
of "Tim" before you go with the other guy and make the
right decision not to cheat.
Cheating Means You're Not in the Right Relationship
If you do not like hurting all these people that you have in the
past from your poor decisions, then you need to let them go before
you go down that path again.
If you cheat on a person and you are not totally faithful, then
I think that the relationship was not meant to be, but this is only
the way I look at things.
The way I look at it is if you really love a person, you would
always be there for them, be loyal to them, and always be faithful
to them.
Tell Him
Maybe you need to rethink your relationship with "Tim".
I also suggest this: it is your choice to tell him. Yes, he will
hurt, but the truth hurts and not only that, he will find out sooner
or later. Whether he catches you or you tell him, he will find out.
I know from experience.
I hope you do the right thing in your life and make good choices.
Take care.
– Sabrina
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