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Dear Wishfully Waiting,
She Did Nothing Wrong
In my opinion, your girlfriend didn't really do anything wrong,
or didn't do anything to betray your trust.
At this age, every girl wonders about her sexuality, and explores
it. Whether it may be with a male or a female. I see this as her
being very confused about things, especially her sexuality. This
is a topic that needs to be discussed.
She May Have Been Tricked
Sit her down and ask her why she is doing what she's doing. Tell
her that you feel hurt and betrayed by what is being done. And let
her explain herself as well, let her tell you what she is feeling,
and listen to why she is doing this. She may have been tricked into
doing this or even just scared because of the impact that this girl
has had on her. There are vast possibilites that could be reasons
for this. So don't jump to any conclusions, and don't let her down
by giving up on her.
Your Trust Will Return
As for trusting her again, if you understand why she is doing what
she is doing, then I think in time the trust will return. Don't
take it too fast, remember you can't have back what you let go.
Bailey
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