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Is my girlfriend a lesbian? Can I trust her?

Bailey said:

...your girlfriend didn't really do anything wrong, or didn't do anything to betray your trust. At this age, every girl wonders about her sexuality, and explores it...

Reader Perun Responds:

She Shouldn't have Been in a Committed Relationship

I disagree, because if she wanted to "explore", she should not have been in a committed relationship. If her intent was to explore her feelings, she should have talked to him about it before they got involved seriously. She acted selfishly and thoughtlessly and now she must reap what she has sown.

She betrayed his trust, plain and simple, when she was seeing someone behind his back. Do you think he would have gone out with her if he had known that she was sexual with her friend?

Trust is easy to give the first time around, and very, very hard to earn back once it has been broken. He needs to move on.

Perun

Male, age 27, NJ

 

 

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