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Dear Wishfully Waiting,
There are certainly quite a few issues here to deal with. My philosophy
is and always has been that if you are deep into a relationship
and one breaks the trust, then there is something obviously wrong
and therefore the foundations of trust have not been sealed.
Her Acts Are Unforgivable
You have already said she is easy to manipulate, but to commit
lesbian acts all through the ten-month period you were going out,
is in my view unforgivable on both Ryanne's part and Suzy's. For
Ryanne to continue this while you were going out is terrible, that
is I take it she knew that you were going out with her.
From what has happened, I don't think Suzy is a lesbian, but just
confused and curious.
Forget Her
It is a common tendency to assume that the first girl you fall
in love with is the last. I am afraid this very rarely the case
and think you are going to have to sit down and forget her. It would
be much healthier for you to start again with someone who hopefully
has no connection with Ryanne who sounds like a meddler. Leave her
well alone.
You'll Never Trust Her Again
Trust is one of the most difficult feelings to regain once it has
been broken, to be totally honest with you, it probably would never
heal.
Start again with someone different and take a break untill you
feel ready. Don't let old feeling of bitterness cloud a new relationship.
– Roopz
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