Cleobear Answers:

Sweetie,

I Was in the Same Situation with my Biological Dad

I know exactly what you are going through. I have been in the same exact situation, except I was torn between my biological Father, and my soon-to-be step mother. I wanted to tell someone, that I felt uncomfortable around my dad, and didn't like the way he would look at me, or the way he would try to touch me.

But my dad's girlfriend and I weren't very close, he and her were engaged, but I just never cliqued with her. I hadn't lived with my dad my whole life, just a few months, and I realized that I was very uncomfortable with him, and wanted someone to know this, so I called my real mom and told her, and then I talked to my best friend.

It Got Worse

I had decided to talk to my dad's girlfriend, and I told her how uncomfortable I felt around him, she then decided to tell my dad what I had said. I felt betrayed, and was very upset, my dad's looks just got worse.

Things finally got to the point where, my dad was crawling in bed with me at night, and was kissing me all over, touching my breasts, I got totally freaked out, and had to go to the police.

Talk to Your Mom

I think that you should talk to your mom, and tell her that you don't feel comfortable with your step-dad's looks, and that you would appreciate her doing something before things get out of hand. Tell her about your underwear in his brief case and everything you told us.

I hope that my own experience and advice has helped you, and good luck, I hope things work for you. E-mail us at questions@loveandlearn.com if you have any other questions.

Sincerely,
– Cleobear

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