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Dear NS,
Let me be really honest with you:
He is using you.
No questions about it. He is definitely using you for sex. If you
didn't have sex with him or weren't now having sex with him then
he would have nothing to do with you. I know that he is your first
and that is very important to you, but it is not for him.
Stand Up for Yourself
You would probably be terrified if you knew how many people he
actually has slept with. This is a lesson learned. Don't give it
up too fast and make sure it is with the right person.
You need to stand up for yourself right now because he is walking
all over you.
Respect Your Body
You can still be a very pure girl without being a virgin. Let's
face it, you made a mistake. No big deal. But no more mistakes.
He is probably sleeping with other people while he has you on the
back-burner. And guess what – so are you.
Not in a physical sense, but any diseases he picks up very well
may be passed on to you. So for your respect for yourself and your
body kick him to the curb. Tell him not to let the door hit him
on the ass on the way out, too.
You can start by having respect for yourself and not letting him
use you. Or you can be hurting inside as you walk to the pharmacy
for that rash that he gave you. The choice is yours.
Don't Beat Yourself Up
The signs are obvious. You deserve better than him. So move on,
don't beat up yourself too much over this. We all make mistakes.
You have a learned a valuable lesson and have plenty of time to
find your soul mate.
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
– Jimmy
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