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If my best friend loves me, why is he dumping me?

Shyann said:

...the thought that we WANT something so bad can bring out powerful emotions that aren't completely real.

Reader JR Responds:

I agree, because when my first beau broke up with me, he hurt the trust I once had in him

But I am 4 times more mature than he is. He never ever thought he had a chance with me. He never thought he could have me, but now that we haven't been together for two years, he'll never find another girl like me or another relationship a good as the one he had with me.

My Ex Is Looking for a Girl Like Me

He is trying to find another girl like me and another relationship like the one we had. Even though it won't ever happen again for him, I can't go up to him and say "You're wasting your time", because through the years he has to figure out for his own self that I am my very own unique human being no one is just like me and that is why he'll never find another relationship like ours was.

Nothing Compares to Erin

Just like this guy Hector realized the hard way that no other relationship of his or girl of his compares to his Erin. That's why he doesn't want to lose her ever again and I think my ex is going through that with me.

This girl needs to accept that the only thing that's meant to be between her and Hector is sharing this baby, but as for a friendship/relationship it wouldn't be a healthy one and she needs to get past him.

JR

Female, age 21, Alberta

 

 

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