Reader "Done That" Responds:
Been there, man. Jimmy's right.
We Want What Others Want
We love the girl for many reasons, but one of the biggest
reasons is the fact that she IS so desirable. She reeks
of sex – everyone wants her (she makes sure of that).
And we like having what everyone else wants.
She's Already Cheated
The question is NOT whether or not she's going to cheat
on you. Emotionally, she already has. And she has physically,
as well (the "other girls").
She Doesn't Respect You
The question is whether or not she respects you, your feelings,
and your relationship. Obviously not. That right there is
good enough reason to dump her.
Go with your gut, dude. If it feels shady, it probably
is. This chick has a lot of growing up to do. Let her do
it by herself.
– Done That
Female, age 25, USA
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