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Dear Elise:
Okay, it seems you have a "don't-know-what-you've-got-till-it's-gone"
mentality. I mean, you do care about your boyfriend, but you don't
seem to realize how much until he's gone.
Appreciate Him While You're with Him
If you want to get back together with him, you need to realize
what he's all about all of the time, not just when he may be seeing
someone else. I've been where you are, you just need to get over
that – it's tough.
Second, you ask if you should call him. Good question. Should you?
Maybe you can tell me that.
What If He Finds Another Girl?
You want to, and you don't want to wait too long, because what
happens if he ends up with someone else? That's definitely what
no one wants to hear – just when you and your heart agree on
something, it's too late.
If you do want to call him to tell him how much you care, make
sure you feel what you are telling him. Trust me, I've told girls
one thing and meant another and it got me into too much trouble.
It sounds like he really likes you and you could hurt him a lot
if you aren't careful.
Tell Him How You Feel
It sounds like you have a simple problem. Just make sure you are
up front with him about the way you feel. If you really like him,
tell him.
Oh, and another thing: do you want to get back together with him?
If so, be warned: he may be a little on the defensive, especially
if he was hurt.
Well, I think you can work it out if you're honest with him, even
though it may be kind of tough, telling him how you feel just might
do the trick.
Good luck.
– Ren
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