Hallie said:

But if he's really THAT special to you than it would be better having him as a friend than not having him at all. Give him a call, see what he thinks.

A Reader Responds:

I disagree because every guy who has dissed me in this way has NEVER replied to my heart to heart queries, or if they did, they were horribly cruel and defensive.

If someone gets their nose out of joint, so to speak, and just ENDS a relationship so quickly, there is definitely something going on in their mind.

Heat To Hearts Lead To More Heartbreak

You should try to call him just as a friend.

Every time I have tried to have a heart to heart with an ex who left me rudely, it led to yet another rejection (rejection of even talking to me) and even more heartbreak.

Now I Shut Them Out Completely

My policy now is to ask guys that do that to NOT ever talk to me again. There's only so many dumpings one heart can take. With these types, there is usually no resolution. You have to make your own.

– Trishy

Female, age 32, Ottowa Canada

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