Reader "Never Been Happier" Responds:
My boyfriend and I broke up this past May. It was a brutal
breakup.
He Didn't Say Why
He broke it off with me, and never gave a solid reason
why. To make the whole situation worse, he broke up over
the phone and refused to see me in person. I wasn't willing
to let him get off the hook that easy. One day shortly after
he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, I decided
to give a surprise visit to his house. (I should also mention
he was in a town 2 hours away from where I was at the time.)
I Wanted Closure – in Person
I went to see him, NOT to convince him to come back to
me. I wanted to have closure on everything, and make him
do the deed to my face, I figured after almost a year of
being together I deserved that much.
He Called 3 Months Later
About 3 months after the day I went to his house, I got
a phone call. It was him. I was not willing to hear him
out at first because he hurt me soo much, but deep inside
I still had feelings for him, and up to then I have never
met anyone that could compare to him.
We finally got together again, which was 4 months after
our initial break up. I will always remember that day for
the rest of my life, and I know he will, too. The feelings
we have for each other were still there and very strong.
Later I found out that, the day I went to his house to
put closure on things for my own well being. That was the
day he wasn't able to get off his mind, on how beautiful
he thought I was, and knew he made a mistake. (It's funny,
how some things you do will have an effect without your
even realizing it.)
We're Talking About Marriage
We talked about where we went wrong the first time, and
we both are willing to try and make it work this time. WE've
never been happier, and are talking about marriage.
Sometimes, " You just don't know what you've got,
till its' GONE".
Chances are if you do go back to eachother, it's because
at least one of you feels there's something there that's
worth making that effort.
– NEVER BEEN Happier
Female, age 26, Ontario, Canada
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