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Dear N,
Worried You're Uncool
I have to ask the question: Why are you so focused on coolness?
Are you worried that YOU are too uncool? Do you think that a guy
who is cool can get you in with the in crowd?
My recommendation is to focus on the stuff that you really like
about the guy.
You Can Learn To Be Cool
Here's the thing: Coolness is definitely not an inborn trait. Your
guy can learn that it's cool to tip bigger, that art museums have
all kinds of things that can be appreciated by even non-artsy people,
that there are other bands besides Cheap Trick (okay, I made that
one up).
Most Guys Are "So Not There"
While most women are unfortunately looking for either that Prince
Charming who will waltz them around the floor, or the leather-clad
Antonio Banderas type to pop them on the Harley and go riding into
the sunset, the reality is that most of us guys are, "so not
there!"
Teach Him
So teach us – teach your guy how to be the stud you are looking
for, or at least, how to go to an art museum and feel comfortable
and stimulated.
Good luck!
- Charlie
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