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"Dried Up Spinster",
Dear, you need to seek professional help to raise your self-esteem
and understanding of the nature of men.
Go Out Two Nights a Week
You also need to go out at least two nights a week with social
groups doing things you enjoy, or attending the theatre with a group
once a month, or other community social events, and attend religious
services in your chosen area, and VOLUNTEER to help either at your
church or synagogue or in your community.
No one needs to be alone, although not everyone gets married. CONNECT
WITH THE COMMUNITY OF MAN!
Find Out Why You Can't Maintain a Long-Term Relationship
Improve your social understanding and maturity – although
you are 42, emotionally you are not. Find out the root causes of
why you cannot or have not been able to maintain a long term loving
relationship, and learn to overcome those problems. Grow as a human
being. Read, attend classes, find new interests and pursue them.
Find a Physical Outlet for Your Frustration
Find a physical outlet for your frustration – ice skating,
horseback riding, a team sport sponsored in your area.
Work your body and your mind, and you will at least have good friends
and self respect. You might even find a relationship!
Good luck!!!
– Mamala
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