Loveless,

You are making the whole relationship thing very complicated.

Take It Slow

What you need to do is take it slow. If you ever want a relationship to work, the guy needs to like YOU first, not your vagina. You need to enjoy each others' company first. Get along, do fun things, go on dates. Then the physial should follow.

Be Different from the Other Girls

Guys are going to lose interest if you are no more interesting than every other girl he has dated. If you are a female, that he hung out with, argued with a little, cuddled a little and have a vagina, then you are not special. You need to be that special person.

Start off with the romance thing. You seem more like a college girl in a relationship than a adult.

Guys Have Short Attention Spans

And listen – you want a guy's perspective? Well guess what – guys lose interest fast. Guys can be mean like that. Girls may be able to fake an orgasm, but guys can fake an entire relationship.

So you know if you are like every other girl in the beginning then you are doomed. It won't work out.

Don't Rely on Your Looks

You cannot not rely on looks because – no offense – you aren't a 22 year old dance instructor. Sorry to be harsh, but hey listen, take the relationship slow and explore each other's mind and spirit before body and do some fun things.
If you start off as good friends, then the guy is a lot less likely to lose interest.

GOOD LUCK!

– Jimmy