|
Dear "Wanting Sex",
Sex Gets Boring
This happens in a lot of relationships: you have the same old
sex in the same old position at the same time every day, and it
gets really really boring in the bedroom. You have to have variety
in your sex life.
I can't tell you why she doesn't want to have sex anymore, but
something may have happened to her that made her think that sex
is dirty and bad.
You have to remember that sex isn't the only part of a relationship.
She May Think Sex Is All You Want
Also, because you were having sex sooooo much before, she may think
that you are only with her because of sex. She may be testing you
and making sure that's not the only reason you are with her.
I did that once – I cut my boyfriend off to make sure that
he loved me for me, not because we spent a lot of our relationship
having sex. She may feel used, or that sex is all you want.
Work on Other Parts of Your Relationship
My advice would be to suck it up and let it be for now, do other
things, and work on other parts of your relationship, talk, do things
together, really get the communication lines open.
She may just give in to temptation, but don't take advantage of
her. If you love her, you'll respect her wishes.
– Bailey
|
