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Why won't my girlfriend have sex with me now?

Shyann mentioned:

[a lot of possible reasons]

A Reader Responds:

I believe it could be any of those reasons.

She's Lost Control

I also believe there could be another – that she is feeling like she has lost control either in your relationship or with her life in general.

Speaking from experience, when a woman feels utterly helpless with her situation, she turns to the one thing she can control and that is her sex.

When I felt out of control and gave in to sexual activity even though I wasn't in the mood, I felt dirty.

Reader "Control" Try Cuddles

Reader

I agree. If he makes her feel cosy he will receive beyond his expectations.

You might want to sit down and bluntly ask why she is feeling this way. Try cuddles and hugs instead – pressure to have sex when she is feeling this way could lead to the end of the relationship.

Control When Out of Control

Female, age 35, Canada

 

 

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