Dear "Wanting Sex",

Do you really love her for who she is, or just because you just want – as you said – to have sex?

She Feels Sex Is Less Meaningful

From the sound of it, she might have had a very good reason for stating that she felt sex was less meaningful in your relationship.

Indigo, you've obviously never been deprived of sex!

Think about this: if you say you really love her and don't just want to be with her for sex, why is having sex so important?

Simpler Things Should Suffice

There are more things in a relationship than just having sex. Sex is enjoyable, but sometimes it's the simpler things in a relationship that can mean the most. I asked if your feelings for her were for who she was, or because you enjoyed having sex with her. If you love her for who she is, then the simpler things will suffice quite easily, and sex won't be such a big issue to you.

She's Trying To Rebuild the Relationship

It sounds to me that your girlfriend is trying to rebuild your relationship on the more meaningful things, and doing so she's choosing to push sex away. If she feels that sex has become almost meaningless, then maybe its time you changed your tune and either contributed to the relationship on a more emotional and less physical level, or accept the fact that you only want to be with her for sex.

Break It Off or Stop Thinking with Your Pants

I agree. Sex is the only thing he wants.

Which is more important to you: having sex, or continuing your relationship? Once you know your priorities, your decision will be very easy to make – if your choice is sex, it would be best to break it off with her and find someone else who wants what you want. If it's your relationship, then quit thinking with your pants and start thinking with your heart.

- Indigo