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Dear "Wanting Sex",
Maybe Things Will Go Back Together
Maybe she feels as if that's all you want. How big of a deal are
you making out of it?
Maybe she just needs some space. Give it to her, and then maybe
things will go back together.
She May Be Falling Out of Love
On the other hand, as sorry as it is to say, she may be falling
out of love with you.
Or may be feeling that you are coming on too strong.
She could be afraid of commitment, or afraid that you would leave
her if she didn't have sex all the time.
She could feel used.
Discuss Her Feelings
Talk to her and discuss her feelings. Ask her what you could do
to help her feel better. If she doesn't want you to see her naked,
she may feel like that's all you see her as, in general.
Leave If the Relationship Is Based on Sex
How emotionally connected are you? If the relationship is based
on sex, I'd go your separate ways.
Don't base love on sex; they are two different things. But there
shouldn't be sex without love. Just make sure you have the right
definition of love in mind. Mind, body,and soul, not just lust.
If you can't connect with her, and understand her feelings, and
if she can't do the same for you, it's just not meant to be.
She's Testing You
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Well, my girlfriend and I have tried the no
sex thing for a while, and now she is not interested in it
anymore. I get mad because I want it.
– male, age 24
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So don't get upset if she wants to test the relationship to see
if it would work without sex. She could be testing your love for
her to see if you would stay with her if it wasn't part of the package
for a while.
Would you pass that test?
Love,
- Shyann
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