A Reader Responds:
I disagree.
Indigo's Obviously Never Been Deprived Of Sex
Indigo has probably never been involuntarily deprived of
sex from a significant other.
As much as they wouldn't like to think so, humans are animals,
and the sex drive is an innate, and extremely large component
of their psyche.
Ask yourself what percentage of people would get married
if there was no sex in it. There's the possibility that
she'll never come around to wanting him again.
Should he stay with her then? Should this guy be content
with the role of being the shoulder to cry on when he's
longing for more as well?
He Should Give It Some Time
I'd tell the guy this: Be patient. Play it by ear. See
what exactly it is she does want out of you. Give the relationship
a little time to see if the chemistry comes back.
If you feel the relationship will teeter to a slant where
you're always having your desire leveraged against you GET
OUT! You can do better than that.
– Soapoperasdontdefinelovewelleither
Male, age 24, USA
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