Dear C- Phobe,

It happens to the best of us, my brother. I have had the same problems with issues like this in the past. I can't comment on my issues now because my girlfriend knows I write on this site.

Women Have you Married in the First Months

First, it is natural to feel like that. Women just don't understand us. Women already have you married in the first few months of dating them.

Men Are More Picky

But that's his problem. He's expecting too much.

Men, I think, are a little more picky. That is why it is more common to see this fat bastid of a guy dating this petite princess. If you feel like that within a few months, then you haven't found the right girl.

Every Girl Thinks She Can Change You

Is there such thing as a soul mate? I don't know, but rumor has it that there someone out there to sweep us of our feet. I say just be honest with the girl in the beginning. Tell them your commitment problems in the past. This isn't going to push away any girls. Trust me. Every girl will think she can change you.

Be Honest and Don't Settle

I am sorry, but there really is no answer to this problem that you are having. Just be honest with the girls that you meet. And be patient. You are allowed to be picky. You are allowed to have commitment issues. F*** settling for anyone. You are damn right the girl needs to be perfect. I don't mean "perfect", but perfect for YOU. I mean, you may be spending the rest of your life with this person. You need to be able to put up with her shit every day until you die. So be honest and be picky. I think you deserve it!

– Jimmy