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Do you know immediately if it's true love?

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Dear Louise,

He May Not Know What Love Is

Guest

Come on! No one really knows what love is.

I think you were right when you said that he might be a little confused. If he has never been in a long term relationship he may not know what love is.

Love Takes Time To Develop

Charlie

But she should know if she loves him after four months!

Love doesn't happen overnight. Love takes time to develop, otherwise it won't last. He may not understand this because he has never been in a long term relationship.

I don't think you should throw away what you two have together. Good relationships with connections are sometimes hard to find. If neither one of you is ready to say "I love you", then you should wait.

Waiting is much better than rushing into something that you might regret later on.

Live in the Moment

He might be a little afraid as well. For someone who has never had a lasting relationship, the prospect of love and a future may be a little daunting. I say live in the moment. There's no reason to rush things. Enjoy your relationship with him, and the rest will come with time.

Good luck!

Annie

 

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