Dizzy,

You have to be kidding me.

You had no clue that she was 12? They must grow them girls different in the Lone Star.

I'm glad you don't sugar-coat your advice.

Don't even think about being with her.

I am 25, and my cousin is 12. If I knew of some guy talking to her close to my age, well...

Well, put it this way: I would be writing you from jail.

Tell Her Parents, Then Let It Go

You need to tell her parents what she has told you about running away and killing herself.

Then you need to cut all communication with her. 19 is even young in my book.

There are a lot of mature girls out there, but also a lot that go through a lot of changes until their mid-20s. I am talking about psychologically. There is a huge difference from high school to college, to professional girls.

12-year-olds don't even fit into this category. They still take the bus to school and like *NSYNC.

You need to back off. Tell the parents and let it go.

Find Another Way To Meet People

Sad but true. It is easy to lie over the Internet.

And try using another way to meet people other than the Internet. Because maybe the next time, it will be a 300 lb. gorilla that will be chasing you.

Good luck and do the right thing, please!!!!!!

– Jimmy