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Dear Extremely Confused,
First of all, we have to remember that 'T' is an 18-year-old boy
with raging hormones in a fairly sexually liberal part of the world.
He Wants Sex
Sex *is* on his mind. He wants it. A lot.
That's probably one of the things he could do while single that
he couldn't do while in a stable relationship – "collect
and select", as my father would say.
He Seems Fond of You
He does seem to have a serious fondness for you though. He wouldn't
keep coming back if he didn't like the emotional fulfilment he got
from being with you even though sex (at the time) wasn't really
in the picture.
Knowing that you've had sex in previous relationships probably
allowed him to believe that he didn't have to tiptoe around the
subject as much as before when you were still abstaining. He didn't
have to hold back any of his physical desire for you.
He Wants You AND Sex
I guess what I'm saying is that he wants to be with you and he
wants sex.
Although by not by not pushing it like 'E' did, he wants you to
want it, too.
I want you to want me,
I need you to need me,
I'd love you to love me,
I'm beggin' you to beg me.
- Letters
to Cleo
– Buddy
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