Dear Extremely,

He's Not Sure What He Wants

I don't think your boyfriend is even sure what he wants.

It's not hard– he just wants her for sex.

I can see why you're confused. From what you've said, it's hard to tell what "T" really wants right now. Of course you have to keep in mind that he's at the age where he's not even sure what he wants (the reason for the last time he broke up with you just proves this).

But it sounds like he's trying to make it work this time.

Wait and See

I guess all I can really tell you is to wait and see.

You and this "T" guy are both at the age where there is so much change.

It's good that he treats you right and says he loves you, but do remember that at this point in his life you can't expect him to truly know what he wants.

– Hallie