Reader "California Gemini" Responds:
I agree that the issue revolves around his personality,
but does she want to make that her problem?
He Has Communication Issues
I mean, anyone who falls down, pulls his arm out of his
socket, and says NOTHING for several minutes, may have communication
issues. Communication is the key to all healthy relationships,
and without it, you have nothing.
Also it concerns me when she says "he never gets angry".
Everyone gets angry from time to time, and it needs to be
acknowledged like other feelings. Even though he may be
"sweet", it ain't so sweet loving a noncommunicative
(albiet nonconfrontational) man.
Beware of Passive-Aggressives
Beware of those who appear to be selfless – they can
be very demanding and emotionally exhausting. Can any one
say passive-aggressive??
– California Gemini
Female, age 40, Southern Califronia
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