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Pepper,
From your explanation, you had a lot to say about Justin, but little
to say about Rob.
The question you need to ask yourself is: What type of person you
see yourself being with in the long run? (someone who is caring,
who listens, who parties, etc) Can you live with the person's character?
(ie. smoking, drinking, etc.)
The Answer Is Inside You
Most times, we have the answers to our questions inside of us.
Just that it is either hard to figure it out or that we don't want
to accept it. If you look real hard inside of you, you will know
what you want. The answer is inside of you.
From what you said, I cannot conclude anything about Rob, except
that he is party guy and you seem to like the "FUN" aspect
of it. Can you trully accept his faults and live with that for the
rest of your life? Besides, he might be the smooth talker who just
knows what to say. Will this last forever if you decide to pick
him over Justin?
As for Justin, he sounds like someone who listens and who is very
caring. Sure he has his faults, but all of us do. People have experiences
in life and cause them to build walls.
Sometimes it takes the right person who is patient enough to break
this wall. All walls can be broken in time. Justin sounds nice,
and if you are willing to take the time and effort to learn more
about him, perhaps, he will open his barriers. It is a risk you
will have to take if you decide to be with Justin.
The question is "Are you willing to put in the effort and
time?" If you ask yourself, the "gut" feeling in
you should tell you something. Follow your instinct.
The One You Choose Is the Right One
Either way, which ever guy you choose ask yourself this –
are you going to be happy with this person? Will you have regrets
for choosing one over the other? If you can live with these answers,
whomever you pick will be the right one for you.
– Lasanya
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