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Dear Chrissy,
Control Issues
You both sound like you have issues that need to be resolved before
either of you can go forward in the relationship. Looks like to
me that he has serious control issues, and you my dear have even
worse to be controlled issues.
Seek Counseling Individually and as a Couple
My suggestion to the both of you is that you seek professional
help, both as a couple and as individuals. If he is unwilling for
any reason, go yourself. About all we can do is work to fix ourselves,
no way in hell you can ever fix another human being.
You are out of town now, and maybe you should stay there and start
your side of the fixing while you are alone. Who knows what type
of effect he will have on you if you try while you are together.
That's the sound advice, from a reasonably sane person.
Ditch the Loser
Now the personal advice from a very rational person. My gut tells
me that if I were in your place, that I would ditch this loser,
and head for the hills just as fast and as far as I could, and like
right now.
As suggested before, you are out of town – stay out, but do
get help for you.
He Will Destroy You
I don't personally see any way you can ever bring this jerk around.
He will lie, cheat and steal from you and do his best to destroy
you. Seek help for you while there is still a chance that you can
start over before it gets any worse.
Good luck – you're going to need it.
– Survivor
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