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Why call me a slut when HE took my virginity?

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Dear Tanya,

Get rid of this piece of shit asshole bastard.

This isn't a girl sticking up for you. This is a guy. I have been pretty shitty to my girlfriends at times, but not like this.

You Deserve Your Fate If You Stay with Him

He is a problem child. You are going to get all of his problems along with him. You lost your virginity to him and he calls you names. If you don't get rid of him you will be miserable and will deserve whatever awful fate that you have with him. I know his type.

He Is Setting You Up

Mel

It's worse than that. Really, he's abusing her.

You know what? If you only hooked up with one guy he would still call you a slut. He asks you all of this information and finds out about your past and then turn it against you. He is setting you up.

There are plenty of guys out there that will treat you like you deserve. And will call you names also. But names like hunny, or princess, or angel. Sounds better, huh?

He'll Never Change

If he is 18 and has a horrible past and treats you like shit, then he is never going to change. You can't and won't change him. Get out now and don't look back. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

Jimmy Things Will Get Worse

What happens is you get used to being treated like shit and you deal with it. Your quality of life plummets and you start believing his insults and doubting yourself. This will hurt you as a mother and in your professional life. So my life is simple. No explaining yourself to him. Don't buy into his crying and apologizing because he will do it again and it is only time before he raises his hand at you.

If you need support getting through this, you write back and ask for Jimmy. Okay? I will even personally write you if you want.

Good luck my little princess!

Jimmy

 

 

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