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Dear Tanya,
He's Abusing You
Don't you see that you are in an abusive relationship?!? Just because
he doesn't beat you – yet – doesn't mean he isn't abusive.
He's doing it verbally and that is usually the worst kind because
it leaves emotional scars which you have already felt.
You, making excuses for his behaviour is wrong. I understand that
he has a tough personal life (which is not your fault) but that
does not excuse him treating you the way he does. No one has the
right to take their problems out on innocent people. The sooner
you realize this, the better.
He Will Not Be a Loving Boyfriend
Your boyfriend's problems run deeper than just his insecurity issues
with you. Judging on his parent's failed marriage and the abuse
he suffered, he will not be a loving boyfriend. And you can't fix
it. He needs professional help with his anger management and only
he can seek the help he needs.
He's Judging You By Your Past
I think the only way he will realize it is by you leaving him.
I know it will be tough, but do you really want to be with someone
who calls you hurtful names that aren't true?
Not to mention the fact that he is judging you by your past. And
like I've said before – A person's past is just that –
the PAST. It shouldn't even be a problem in your relationship.
You'll Never Change Him
This guy is in trouble and the only way you can help him is by
leaving. Don't reason with him – just tell him how you feel
and leave. He needs some tough love right now and you staying with
him will never change who he is.
Hope I've Helped,
– Mel
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